I got conned by a bestselling author


8 Books That Actually Changed My Life

I got conned by a bestselling author and I didn’t even see it coming.

She was on one of the biggest podcasts in the world (you know the one, tens of millions of downloads every month), super confident and articulate and full of bold claims about nutrition and what was slowly killing us all.

I bought her book before the episode was over.

Within the first few chapters, I knew something was off. So I did what I should have done before handing over my hard-earned cash and I looked into who she actually was.

She wasn’t qualified to make half the claims she was making. The “science” was cherry-picked, oversimplified, or flat-out wrong.

And the host never pushed back on a single thing.

I felt like such a fucking idiot. I still CRINGE!

I’m educated, I’m a health coach, I know how to read research, and I still fell for it.

If it wasn’t a Kindle copy, I would have burnt that fucking book.

Now I’m more skeptical. I check credentials and I look at the research. I check if the person is actually qualified to say this, or are they just confident and well-marketed.

Because the wellness space is flooded with charismatic people saying things that sound true but aren’t.

And the cost of bad advice isn’t just wasted money. It’s wasted time, misplaced trust, and sometimes real harm.

So here are 8 books that actually changed something in me, how I think, how I coach or how I treat myself (written by people who are actually qualified to write them).

They changed my life, and I think they could change yours too.

This is a long one. Grab a coffee or bookmark it :)


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