The machine is making us tired


The Burnout Diagnosis Most Industries Refuse to Make

Imagine being in a ballroom, listening to Singapore’s Chief Justice deliver an opening address, and somewhere around the middle of it, having to physically restrain yourself from jumping up and down.

That is basically what happened to me last July at the Legal Profession Symposium.

Not because anything shocking was said.

But because the quiet part was FINALLY being said. Out loud, in public.

By one of the most respected voices in Singapore’s legal community.

The line that got me was this: young lawyers are not leaving private practice because they are being pulled towards something better.

They are leaving because they are being pushed out by what practice has become, by “push factors rather than pull factors” rooted in growing dissatisfaction with legal practice itself.

So yes, I kept my symposium face on, but inside, I was absolutely losing it.

I have been thinking about that moment again this week from Rio de Janeiro, where I’ve just been speaking at a legal conference about Singapore’s work in legaltech, AI policy, and judicial innovation.

Different country, different room, same question underneath: what does it take for a profession to evolve without quietly burning out the people inside it?


Hey! I'm Noemie

Wellbeing by Design for burned-out overachievers allergic to self-help BS. Evidence-based habits, mindset shifts and real talk from a Former Queen of Bad Habits. No toxic trends or wellness hustle, just science, soul, and a little bit of chaos ⚡️

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